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Posted by Douglas A Wick on Mon, Dec 8, 2025

Become Someone New to Create a New Future

The world has always been dynamic—perhaps more so today than ever before.
To not only survive but to thrive in our personal and professional lives, we must continually learn, change, and grow. Adaptation isn’t optional. It’s the path to creating the life and results we want.

In Your Personality Shapes Your Personal Reality, we shared that your personality is made up of:

  • How you think
  • How you act
  • How you feel

Cycle of Thinking and Feeling These elements form the lens through which you experience your life. They are your personal reality.

We also noted an important truth: 90% of today’s thoughts are the same thoughts you had yesterday.
And if your thoughts repeat, your actions repeat. Your emotions repeat.
You end up reliving the same day, over and over—even while hoping for a different future.

The YOU sitting here today—your current personality—has produced the life you are currently living.
If you want a new life, you cannot create it with the same mindset, habits, and emotions.

In other words:
You cannot keep thinking, acting, and feeling the way you do now and expect your dreams to come true.
You MUST become someone new.
You MUST change your personality to create a new personal reality.

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself - Because we have metacognitive capabilities—we can decide how we no longer want to be ... to think, act, and feel.This is the essence of Dr. Joe Dispenza’s Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One.

Darren Hardy echoes the same principle in The Compound Effect:

“If you want to have more, you have to become more. Success is not something you pursue. It’s something you attract by the person you become.”

So the real question becomes:

How Do You Become the Person You Want to Be?Believing, Behaving, Becoming - Dr. Joe Dispensa

How do you become your envisioned future?

By…
Believing.
Behaving.
Becoming.

In Change Your Mind. Create New Results training, we teach the neuroscience behind successful, sustainable change.
You’ll reconnect to how you’ve created change in the past, learn how your brain and body work together (and against you), and gain the tools to finally make change stick.

Once you learn these tools…
You cannot unlearn them.
You’ll repeat them for yourself—and you’ll recognize how to help others change as well.

The Hardest Part of Change

The hardest part of change is simple to say and difficult to do:

Not making the same choice you made yesterday.

The moment you choose differently, be prepared—you will feel uncomfortable.

Why?
Because you're leaving the familiar territory of the known and stepping into the unfamiliar territory of the unknown.
You are crossing the river of change.

YOUR PERSONALITY (3 Forces Shape Your Life) GraphicIf your body has been conditioned to run the show—if your body has become the mind—it will fight to pull you back into old patterns. It will influence:

  • Your thoughts
  • Your choices
  • Your behaviors
  • Your experiences
  • Your emotions

All to keep you anchored in your familiar self.

So you must ask:

  • What thoughts do I want to fire and wire in my brain?
  • What behaviors do I want to demonstrate?
  • What emotions do I want to feel as I trade fear, pain, and unworthiness for gratitude, joy, and freedom?

If you can think differently…
If you can act differently…
If you can feel differently…
You will change your personality.
And that is how you begin to change your life.

The Biological Model for Change

To move from your familiar past to a new future, a specific biological process must occur. Change requires:

  • Unlearning and relearningBreaking the Habit of Being Yourself - The Biological Model for Change
  • Breaking habits of the old self and reinventing a new self
  • Pruning old neural connections and growing new ones
  • Unfiring and unwiring old circuits, refiring and rewiring new circuits
  • Losing your mind and creating a new one
  • Becoming familiar with the old self—and then familiar with the new self you are choosing
  • Deprogramming and reprogramming
  • Un-memorizing emotions stored in the body and reconditioning the body to a new mind
  • No longer living in the past—and generating a new future
  • Pulling your attention and energy out of the past and directing it toward your envisioned future

This is the biological process required to transform your familiar past into a new personal reality.

This is what you must do to create a new future for YOU.

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself - When the body changes physically-biologically to look like an experience happened just by thought alone,  this offers evidence the event has already transpirReady to Create Your Future?

Now is the time to choose YOU.

At Positioning Systems, we help leaders and teams break free from the familiar past and build cultures of inspiration, accountability, and growth.

If you’re ready to rewire your thinking and step into your envisioned future, explore our NCS – Change Your Mind. Create New Results training.

Challenge yourself.
Challenge your team.
Challenge your business.

👉 Contact us today for a free exploratory meeting—and begin becoming the hero of your own story.

Growth demands Strategic Discipline.

Most of us fail to realize we are responsible for our lives. We are the creators of our lives. My life is simply a succession of choices/decisions I’ve made, and that I consciously or unconsciously choose to continue to make each day.

It’s a scary thought, but the reality is – YOU CREATE Your LIFE!

You’ve been doing it and will continue to do it. The encouraging part of this is if you’re responsible for creating your life, YOU can create it to be what you want. Change Your Mind. Create New Results training helps you create the life you want. In next week’s blog, how to create the life you want.

Building an enduring great organization requires disciplined people, disciplined thought, disciplined action, superior results, producing a distinctive impact on the world.

Discipline sustains momentum, over a long period of time, laying the foundations for lasting endurance.

A winning habit starts with 3 Strategic DisciplinesPriorityMetrics, and Meeting Rhythms.   Forecasting, accountability, individual, and team performance improve dramatically.

Meeting Rhythms achieve a disciplined focus on performance metrics to drive growth.

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NEXT BLOG – A Scary Thought – You Create Your Life!Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself - When you try to figure out your life within the same consciousness that created it, you will analyze your life away and excuse yourself from ever changing.-1

 

Topics: Change Your Mind Create New Results, Dr Joe Dispenza, River of Change, How You Think, How You Act, How You Feel

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