I don’t mean they just believed in you. I mean they believed you can achieve much more than your current level. They saw your potential. They believed in you beyond anything you could imagine possible.
Perhaps it was a parent, a coach, a teacher, a very special friend.
I love this quote from Cathy Cartoonist, Cathy Guisewite:
"All parents believe their children can do the impossible. They thought it the minute we were born, and no matter how hard we've tried to prove them wrong, they all think it about us now. And the really annoying thing is, they're probably right"
We continue to explore The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results, by Gary Keller with Jay Papasan.
Great questions are like the person you remember who pushed you to be your best. Who pressed you to not only believe you could do what you believed impossible, he/she saw you able to achieve the “incredible” before you did.
Four Options to Frame a Great Question
Quadrant 4. Small & Specific
Look at the figure here. See the Power of the Focusing Question as we examine pros and cons of each questions quadrant.
Quadrant 3. Small & Broad
“What can I do to increase sales?” This is the kind of average question most people ask. They wonder why their answer didn’t deliver an extraordinary result. How many times have you been victimized by this? This is a brainstorming question only. How much will you increase sales? By when?
Quadrant 2. Big & Broad
“What can I do to double sales?” Too many options here. If you’re doubling sales in 20 years it’s far different from doubling sales in a year or less. Good start. This leaves more questions than it answers. You need to be specific.
Quadrant 2. Big & Specific
“What can I do to double sales in six months?” Big goal and it’s specific! You’re going to have to really stretch to achieve this. Doubling sales, not easy. In six months? Who is going to achieve this? Ask a Great Question, you pursue a great goal.
A big specific question leads to a big, specific answer, which is absolutely necessary to achieve a big goal.
GREAT ANSWERS: DOABLE, STRETCH, POSSIBILITY
Here’s the challenge: Once you’ve asked a great question, now you need to find a great answer.
Doable: this is the answer that is within reach of your knowledge, skills, and experience. You probably know how to do it and it won’t take much to get it. Doable is the most likely to be achieved.
Possibility: Still with me? According to Gary Keller, “High achievers understand these first two routes but reject them. Unwilling to settle for ordinary when extraordinary is possible, they’ve asked a Great Question and want the very best answer.
As the title of this blog states: Extraordinary Results Require Great Answers.
Keller states this best, “Highly successful people choose to live at the outer limits of achievement. They not only dream of but deeply crave what is beyond their natural grasp. They know this type of answer is the hardest to come by but also know that just by extending themselves to find it, they expand and enrich their life for the better. If you want the most from your answer, you must realize that it lives outside your comfort zone. This is rare air. A big answer is never in plain view, nor is the path to finding one laid out for you. A possibility answer exists beyond what is already known and being done. As with a stretch goal, you can start out by doing research and studying the lives of other high achievers. But you can’t stop there. In fact, your search has just begun. Whatever you learn, you’ll use it to do what only the greatest achievers do: benchmark and trend.
Great Answer is essentially a new answer. It is a leap across all current answers in search of the next one and is found in two steps. The first is the same as when you stretch. You uncover the best research and study the highest achievers. Anytime you don’t know the answer, your answer is to go find your answer. In other words, by default, your first ONE Thing is to search for clues and role models to point you in the right direction. The first thing to do is ask, ‘Has anyone else studied or accomplished this or something like it?’ The answer is almost always yes, so your investigation begins by finding out what others have learned”
ORDINARY PROCESS
Most of us pursue life at a limited level. We fear getting out of our comfort zone. We achieve ordinary results because we purse an ordinary process for achievement.
In Strategic Discipline we require first the leadership team and company and then everyone in the company to build a dashboard to track their progress. Whatever it is you want to achieve Keller shares individual goals, benchmarking, and trending is your best option to achieve it.
When your answer is original, a great answer, you probably need to reinvent yourself in some way to implement it. A new answer requires new behavior. If you need to change the process along the way, do it!
Why? Because that’s where the magic happens! When you maximize your reach, you maximize your life.
Here are Keller’s Big Ideas from this chapter:
NEXT BLOG – OUTTHINK THE COMPETITION
Explore to discover your One Thing. Please pickup The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results, by Gary Keller with Jay Papasan. The next step in the book I shared in Purpose - The Dickens of Your One Thing – Merry Christmas.
In today’s dynamic world, if your business isn’t innovating you’re losing ground. Next blog we’ll explore Kaihan Krippendorff, OUTTHINK THE COMPETITION. We’ll look at why, “Truly effective strategies must be disruptive, meaning they are creative and difficult for competitors to copy.”